No parent should go through losing a child., my first child was born after not having a heartbeat for 19 minutes, she suffered brain damage and organ damage because of the lack of oxygen. Fortunately she was premature and the brain and organs revitalising. They tried drugs never used before to keep her going and have now been revolutionary. To be told that your baby has a 1-24 hours is the most horrible feeling I've ever experienced. Fortunately she's 16 in November and fine and on a football note we got a draw against Swansea away that weekend.