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Coming out as homosexual in the Championship

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On 24/07/2019 at 13:02, Eddie Hitler said:

It seemed a silly way to go about it; if you want to draw vast media attention to yourself then that's what you would do.

A local radio presenter has "come out" as gay, previously had a girlfriend, but has never made a big deal of it or even openly said it on the radio AFAIK and it's not referred to.  He has a public social media account which shows pictures of him and his partner on holiday.

Now I accept that the Championship is not local radio but that sort of "so what, it's not an issue" approach is surely going to be better than this "big announcement coming" tack which is only going to stoke media interest.

If one of our players did the same with no big announcement but just allowed people to pick up that their media stream was mainly pictures of him and the same bloke all the time and his response was "so what, it's not an issue" then I don't think it would be much of one.

I know it isn't an issue for OTIB, as per this thread, but I don't think anyone expected it to be so anyway.  This is a polite place.

My thoughts entirely.

I have several friends and acquaintances who have 'come out' as gay or were even openly gay when I first met/was introduced to them: it was no big deal and, almost without exception, they (and their partners) were all lovely blokes to boot - and, of course, why shouldn't they be?

But, and this is surely the crux of the matter, just imagine if, for instance, Gary Lineker or Alan Shearer were to reveal themselves as being gay.

The headline news in the media and the hot topic in the pubs would be: 'Hey, did you hear about ....?'

The subject would be headline news for days, even weeks, and is it no wonder that a humble young Championship player has perhaps decided that, at this stage of his career, he doesn't want to be the subject of (perhaps/probably negative) headline news? 

 

 

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On 24/07/2019 at 16:10, BobBobSuperBob said:

Unlike you , I havnt got any agenda . I couldn’t give a flying **** about Brexit or politics full stop 

There is one poster on the forum who stands out as having a political agenda and including showing it  it on as many threads as possible  

Football has come on in massive leaps n bounds regarding racism

As somebody who’s been in the terraces for 40 odd years football is a relative broad church now 

I seriously can’t recall the last time  I’ve heard anything mumbled let alone shouted or chanted at football that could be constituted as racist

One poster? Just the one? Are you blind man? Deaf? Illiterate?

Seriously Bob, and quite unfortunately, whilst things have improvedsince the 1970s, there are several (numerous) posters on this forum who are still bigoted, racist, homophobic, perhaps all three....and the list goes on.  

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On 24/07/2019 at 22:20, Bar BS3 said:

It’s not though, is it..?

We now have a man in charge of our country who not one single member of the general public has voted to be put there. 

How is that democracy serving the nation well..?! 

Yeah, of course.

And didn't the same sort of thing happen with Gordon Brown.

Democracy, eh? Bloody Democracy.

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16 minutes ago, PHILINFRANCE said:

Yeah, of course.

And didn't the same sort of thing happen with Gordon Brown.

Democracy, eh? Bloody Democracy.

3 of our last 4 did not become PM through a general election. In fact of those 3, only Johnson had to contest an election. Piss poor state of affairs when there is relatively more legitimacy in Johnson's appointment than Brown's or May's.

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14 minutes ago, PHILINFRANCE said:

One poster? Just the one? Are you blind man? Deaf? Illiterate?

Seriously Bob, and quite unfortunately, whilst things have improvedsince the 1970s, there are several (numerous) posters on this forum who are still bigoted, racist, homophobic, perhaps all three....and the list goes on.  

And you have a long list, including dyslexphobia, if there is such a thing  I am I hope extremely intolerant of all those things on Phil in France's list and yet you still find time to remind  moi! that I am indeed flawed. How is it up there on that pedestal? 🤔  

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54 minutes ago, PHILINFRANCE said:

My thoughts entirely.

I have several friends and acquaintances who have 'come out' as gay or were even openly gay when I first met/was introduced to them: it was no big deal and, almost without exception, they (and their partners) were all lovely blokes to boot - and, of course, why shouldn't they be?

But, and this is surely the crux of the matter, just imagine if, for instance, Gary Lineker or Alan Shearer were to reveal themselves as being gay.

The headline news in the media and the hot topic in the pubs would be: 'Hey, did you hear about ....?'

The subject would be headline news for days, even weeks, and is it no wonder that a humble young Championship player has perhaps decided that, at this stage of his career, he doesn't want to be the subject of (perhaps/probably negative) headline news? 

 

 

You have a pretty poor view of how we are over here... I don't see the back lash you portray at all, it would be a non-story.

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16 hours ago, 1bristolcity said:

You have a pretty poor view of how we are over here... I don't see the back lash you portray at all, it would be a non-story.

I think Phil is spot-on about the reaction there'd be if it was Lineker or Shearer (especially if they came out as a couple!). Coming out as gay is still a relatively big deal - especially if it's someone you had no idea about. But there's a big difference between that, and feeling contempt towards it. 

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22 hours ago, One Team In Keynsham said:

3 of our last 4 did not become PM through a general election. In fact of those 3, only Johnson had to contest an election. Piss poor state of affairs when there is relatively more legitimacy in Johnson's appointment than Brown's or May's.

I dunno if you can even say that. It was widespread public knowledge that Blair was going to hand over to Brown at some point, and both men confirmed it. It could be argued that those voting for Blair as PM knew they'd also get Brown as PM. Not sure all those voting for May in 2017 knew BoZo was going to go on to occupy No.10. 

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On 29/07/2019 at 17:13, 1bristolcity said:

And you have a long list, including dyslexphobia, if there is such a thing  I am I hope extremely intolerant of all those things on Phil in France's list and yet you still find time to remind  moi! that I am indeed flawed. How is it up there on that pedestal? 🤔  

Firstly, I was replying, in jest, to @BobBobSuperBob, who had posted in response to an earlier post from @RedDave:

    'Unlike you , I havnt got any agenda . I couldn’t give a flying **** about Brexit or politics full stop 

    There is one poster on the forum who stands out as having a political agenda and including showing it  it on as many threads as possible  

    Football has come on in massive leaps n bounds regarding racism'.

My reply, lest you forget, was:

    'One poster? Just the one? Are you blind man? Deaf? Illiterate?

    Seriously Bob, and quite unfortunately, whilst things have improved since the 1970s, there are several (numerous) posters on this forum who are still bigoted, racist, homophobic, perhaps all three....and the list goes on.'  

My post was not addressed to you and nor did it refer to you; your views or, most certainly, seek to remind you of any flaws you might have.

Furthermore, and I apologise if I have misconstrued your post, but I get the impression that you consider me intolerant of people suffering from dyslexia: I assure you nothing could be further from the truth.

Whilst, for personal reasons, I have no desire to expound on the subject, I am sure you are aware that dyslexia is a learning disorder, an illness, if you like, and I should be insulted were you or, indeed, anybody on this forum to suspect I might be intolerant of somebody suffering from any illness. 

As somebody who has often been criticised by posters on this forum has stated:

If you are dyslexic, your eyes work fine, your brain works fine, but there is a little short circuit in the wire that goes between the eye and the brain.

I admit readily that I do get frustrated when people use what I would describe as 'sloppy' English, e.g. write would 'of' instead of 'have', and I despair when people seem incapable of distinguishing between the common words there/their/they're or your/you're, but perhaps that is a personal foible - incidentally, 😉, I don't believe the word 'dyslexphobia', which you used in your post, actually exists, although the term dyslexia phobia certainly does, and refers to the anxiety felt by people who suffer from dyslexia when they fear this might be exposed in public.

All the Best.

 

 

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I have heard my neighbour loudly describing someone (I think he works with) as being Gay going around sucking more dicks than... (x, y, z varies depending on his mood). No idea why he's so obsessed with someone else's sex life, but it's pretty sad to hear.

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48 minutes ago, Fiale said:

I have heard my neighbour loudly describing someone (I think he works with) as being Gay going around sucking more dicks than... (x, y, z varies depending on his mood). No idea why he's so obsessed with someone else's sex life, but it's pretty sad to hear.

Sounds like projection to me.

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