Sir Colby-Tit Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 I wouldn't normally go in for this sort of thing, but just wanted to pay tribute to a fellow Red, my Dad, who sadly lost his long battle with COPD last week. He became very unwell in January 2018, and whilst he was in a coma fighting for his life I contacted the club who sent him a get well card and an incredibly moving video message from Mad Frankie Fielding. I showed him the vid very soon after he came out of the coma, and will never forget the moment. He was absolutely delighted. He first took me to AG in December 76, when I was 6 years old, when we played Leeds United. We stood in the enclosure in front of the Williams stand, and although the game was abandoned due to fog, I was well and truly hooked. He then used to take me and my two brothers into the East End, with a rickety stool each to stand on. He'd plant us right in the middle behind the goal, in front of a barrier to protect us from the surges. He was always one to start the chanting, and often used to nearly split my ear drums belting out "come on you reds". The only time I remember him leaving us alone was when Arsenal tried to take the East End. Well, he wasn't having that and off he went with his steel toe capped boots and donkey jacket to sort it out! Some great away days followed when me and my mates would pile in the back of our clapped out Bedford Romany camper, and go off on an adventure. One of those occasions was the notorious Corinthian Casuals game, where once again he stepped up when Millwall made their unwelcome appearance. He dearly loved the club, and would always write letters to various managers with his insights. In his mind, I think he was the best manager we never had He was also a great supporter of local youth players. Having not been able to visit him for six months because of covid, I was finally allowed to see him last week and even when I was saying my goodbyes he was asking about Zak Vyner! Sorry to bang on, but I just wanted to put it out there as he'd love the attention from fellow Reds! In the words of my dearly loved old man "COME ON YOU REDDDDSSSS!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bristol Rob Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry for your loss Sir Colby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guy Incognito Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 So sorry to hear about your loss. You clearly have some wonderful shared memories with your dad and I’m sure in the future, they’ll bring a smile to your face. COYR Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColeCiderRed Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 RIP Sir Colby-Tit Snr. Condolences to you mate. COYR!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiverRed Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry to hear this. Thanks for sharing your memories. Peace to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Robin Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robbored Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Losing a parent is tough for anyone and you’ve described your dad in a wonderful way and I’m sure we’re all sorry for your loss. The grieving process is different for everyone. For me it took me months to recover from losing my dad and these days he’s In my heart but not my life. I cherish the memories I have of him and you’ll be the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottie Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 So sorry for your loss. What great memories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrahamC Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry mate. Your old man sounds like the sort of bloke anyone would be proud to have as a Dad. My old man is approaching 80 & still a regular, I can see a fair few similarities.. RIP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hampshire reds Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 sorry to hear of your loss. R.I P fellow red. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bazooka Joe Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Your dad sounds like he was a good man and a proper, no-nonsense fan. I'm sure you'll agree, a good dad is worth his weight in gold, and having such a one is like winning the lottery. Condolences to you and yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slartibartfast Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Now got the best view in the house . RIP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shuffle Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 So sorry for your loss and I could replace my dad with your dad in those stories. He certainly left you with some great memories Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoystonFoote'snephew Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 My heartfelt condolences for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Army 75 Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Condolences to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Thoughts are with you and your family mate. Best wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sniper Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Condolences to you mate. I've been through it, the only thing I can say is time is a great healer. Never forgot them but it does get easier. He sounded a bit of a character, and a top bloke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silvio Dante Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 My condolences mate. RIP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agard Days Night Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 RIP fellow red. Many condolences to you and yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonBristolian Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ROSEBUD RED Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 You’ve done him proud mate. Condolences and all the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chipdawg Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry for your loss fella, glad you have so many fond memories And RIP fellow red Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M.D Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry for your loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Major Isewater Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 My condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bannerman Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 My condolences and many thanks for sharing beautiful memories, never forgotten Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry for your loss Sir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudolf Hucker Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Very sad news, Colby and I’m extremely sorry for your loss. CTHD CTYD CTID Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYTRAM Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 Sorry to hear of your loss Colby, sad times. RIP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyderInACan Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 RIP fellow red. I hope you found writing that in some way comforting. There are clearly bundles of cherished memories you could share & you can take great pride in your words. Love to you and all the family @Sir Colby-Tit COYR Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red-Robbo Posted August 20, 2020 Report Share Posted August 20, 2020 He sounds like a great dad, Sir Colby. Tutoring you in the ways of righteousness (ie: taking you to watch City! My dad did the same) Sorry to hear of your loss. Rest easy now, fellow red. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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