My use of the word ‘if’ was not used to cast doubt. I very much believe it happened. My son had his first game of the season last weekend and it was depressing to be back running the line for his team. We’ve just come off the back of a delightful cricket season where we had one incident of dissent in about 18 matches. First football match, the 16 year old referee gets a ton of flack for a decision that he got correct as it happened 6 yards in front of me! The dads of the opposition had an awful angle of it but it didn’t stop the abuse. And regardless of if it was the correct decision or not it shouldn’t happen. I then speak up and tell them to mind their tone and language and then I’m in the firing line!