Why should it be a banker away win? Rotherham home form this season isnt too bad, it's their away where they're really struggling.
Also when else have we recently 'fooked it up two nil'? We did it once in the whole of last season I think, drawing 2-2 at home to Boro. Not sure throwing away a 2-0 lead very rarely shows a 'serious problem with our mentality', it happens sometimes to nearly every team, just a poor result rather than anything deeper...