Yeah you do have a point and you have made it well. My point is that this is a thread aimed entirely at ridiculing that lot, there is no need for self-appraisal. Just wave or wiggle your willy at them. It seems healthy enough.
When a willy has been waved I find it best to ask the owner to kindly stop waving it whilst perhaps pointing out that the size of it is not worth waving.
I remember when Victoria Beckham sued Peterborough Utd over use of the nickname "Posh". She got what she deserved when Nestle sued her for the use of the term "Pop Tart".
You have your opinion I have mine. I find the age gap a disturbing one. It is not homophobic to suggest perversion as a motivation for someone's actions. Neil Warnock can sue me for libel, but I don't think he will. I don't like him.