formerly known as ivan Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 here is the story...had plans to go out yesterday with my ex and two kids (long story!). any how, i over slept in the morning and rang to say i would be up after dinner. she then called back and said don't rush cus she was going out with her parents and our kids. turns out they went to see the rovers promotion parade. its fair to say i went absolutely mental with her. my boy being almost 6, trying to really get him in to city (he has been to a few games so far). the last thing i wanted was for him to be taken down there. to top it off, i had a photo sent through with him and my little girl hold a rovers flag! this pushed me over the edge!i rang my ex shouting and swearing at her and even used the words ' f'off and die' in the same sentence! didnt go out in the afternoon and havent spoken to her since.now I'm feeling a bit guilty after what i had said to her. she know how much this would wind me up but choose to do it anyway. should i apologies for what i said or should i wait for herr to apologies to me for taking them down there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HambrookRed Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 here is the story...had plans to go out yesterday with my ex and two kids (long story!). any how, i over slept in the morning and rang to say i would be up after dinner. she then called back and said don't rush cus she was going out with her parents and our kids. turns out they went to see the rovers promotion parade. its fair to say i went absolutely mental with her. my boy being almost 6, trying to really get him in to city (he has been to a few games so far). the last thing i wanted was for him to be taken down there. to top it off, i had a photo sent through with him and my little girl hold a rovers flag! this pushed me over the edge!i rang my ex shouting and swearing at her and even used the words ' f'off and die' in the same sentence! didnt go out in the afternoon and havent spoken to her since.now I'm feeling a bit guilty after what i had said to her. she know how much this would wind me up but choose to do it anyway. should i apologies for what i said or should i wait for herr to apologies to me for taking them down theredump her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giles_23_bcfc Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 here is the story...had plans to go out yesterday with my ex and two kids (long story!). any how, i over slept in the morning and rang to say i would be up after dinner. she then called back and said don't rush cus she was going out with her parents and our kids. turns out they went to see the rovers promotion parade. its fair to say i went absolutely mental with her. my boy being almost 6, trying to really get him in to city (he has been to a few games so far). the last thing i wanted was for him to be taken down there. to top it off, i had a photo sent through with him and my little girl hold a rovers flag! this pushed me over the edge!i rang my ex shouting and swearing at her and even used the words ' f'off and die' in the same sentence! didnt go out in the afternoon and havent spoken to her since.now I'm feeling a bit guilty after what i had said to her. she know how much this would wind me up but choose to do it anyway. should i apologies for what i said or should i wait for herr to apologies to me for taking them down thereApologise mate. Especially using them words together. Its not as though she actually took them to the final or anything is it? See your point though but they are only young. At not even 6, you still have a good 2 or 3 years to convice him to join the good side.Just imagine if your kids wouldve heard what was said between you and her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barrs Court Red Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Phone social services and report child abuse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B1ackbird Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Try Childline, they take a very dim view of this sort of thing.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dollymarie Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 F off and die isnt a very nice thing to say to the mother of your children. They wouldnt be here without her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chappers Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 You need to ask? 'Yes' sprang to mind immediately! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiderHider Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 dump her.How can he dump his Ex? I spose he could dump her again, this would certainly warrant it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HambrookRed Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 How can he dump his Ex? I spose he could dump her again, this would certainly warrant it!You got it mate, take her back, dump her. Ill all seriousness though....was a little harsh mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRedRobin32 Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 You should say sorry for what you said to her. But it wasn't nice sending you photos of your children with a Rovers flag that is child abuse! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
formerly known as ivan Posted May 29, 2007 Author Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 best apologies then hadnt i.i do feel bad about it, just got caught up in the heat of the moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kibs Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 While I was away with work my brother in law put a Man U hat on my 1 year old son, Took a photo and sent it to me. That was bad enough and I was not happy. I had a few choice words for him I can tell ya. No matter how much my Mrs/Ex Mrs hated me, I don't think she would stoop as low as to do what your ex did. Its bang out of order. You probably went abit over the top by saying what you said but she must have expected it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giles_23_bcfc Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 F off and die isnt a very nice thing to say to the mother of your children. They wouldnt be here without her. or him if you think about it dolls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bh_red Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 here is the story...had plans to go out yesterday with my ex and two kids (long story!). any how, i over slept in the morning and rang to say i would be up after dinner. she then called back and said don't rush cus she was going out with her parents and our kids. turns out they went to see the rovers promotion parade. its fair to say i went absolutely mental with her. my boy being almost 6, trying to really get him in to city (he has been to a few games so far). the last thing i wanted was for him to be taken down there. to top it off, i had a photo sent through with him and my little girl hold a rovers flag! this pushed me over the edge!i rang my ex shouting and swearing at her and even used the words ' f'off and die' in the same sentence! didnt go out in the afternoon and havent spoken to her since.now I'm feeling a bit guilty after what i had said to her. she know how much this would wind me up but choose to do it anyway. should i apologies for what i said or should i wait for herr to apologies to me for taking them down thereI'm proud of you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob k Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 don't appologise, I reckon my missus would do something like that to severly annoy me if we ever split up!!! Its the worse thing she could do to you and she knows it!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChubStixx Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Should you apologise? Of course. While the children are still young it's best not to fall out with their mother!My sister has just had a little boy, born in Cheltenham all be it - but he has been all kitted out in city merchandise already. He's also got a little Bristol rugby number from somewhere and for some reason!We're just as passionate about our club whilst at Ashton Gate as we are on the outside. With the gas winning on saturday, temporarily taking the spot-light we are bound to feel out of sorts! If it was me I would be more annoyed to see them holding a Manchester United flag - but only slightly!Anyway, one day they will turn around to you whilst away at Upton Park, The Hawthorns or god forbid - The Withdean; and say thanks for bringing us up as city fans, dad! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Eamer Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Maybe overreacted with the "f off and die" but not with anything else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Colby-Tit Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Next time you have the kids dress them in little Nazi uniforms and send her a picture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redbarn Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 dump her.No...dump ON her!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest brfc1883 Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I think you all need to grow up a bit. My ex girlfiend and I split up in April 2004, she then went onto meet an 82er. After a few months I found out that she and her new partner were taking my daughter down to Trashcan, and had even bought her a shirt & season ticket!! Now I admit I was not too happy about the arrangement, but there was no swearing & no rasied voices.Now three years on, she goes to see you lot one week, and comes to watch some proper footy at the Mem the next. She even wears her ci*y shirt round to mine on the weekend, although we soon change that for her Rovers shirt and put the Ci*y one in the bottom of her bag to take straight back home!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redbarn Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 No...dump ON her!! Only joking! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dezgimed Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Beat her.The kids will be scarred for life so they've suffered enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redbarn Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I think you all need to grow up a bit. My ex girlfiend and I split up in April 2004, she then went onto meet an 82er. After a few months I found out that she and her new partner were taking my daughter down to Trashcan, and had even bought her a shirt & season ticket!! Now I admit I was not too happy about the arrangement, but there was no swearing & no rasied voices.Now three years on, she goes to see you lot one week, and comes to watch some proper footy at the Mem the next. She even wears her ci*y shirt round to mine on the weekend, although we soon change that for her Rovers shirt and put the Ci*y one in the bottom of her bag to take straight back home!! Oh Really?.....now toddle off & get a life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest brfc1883 Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Oh Really?.....now toddle off & get a life.I think you're the one who needs to get a life 'mate'. It's a free country and if I choose to post here then I will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChubStixx Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I think you're the one who needs to get a life 'mate'. It's a free country and if I choose to post here then I will.Mate, you came on here referring to our beloved Ashton Gate as "Trashcan", what were you expecting? Hi-five's all 'round?Jeez.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redbarn Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I think you're the one who needs to get a life 'mate'. It's a free country and if I choose to post here then I will.I am quite content to stay on my own teams forum...shame you cannot do this yourself.It is quite obvious you & your like come on here just to annoy people..a bit like haemorrhoids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest brfc1883 Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I am quite content to stay on my own teams forum...shame you cannot do this yourself.It is quite obvious you & your like come on here just to annoy people..a bit like haemorrhoids.I accept the Trashcan thing, however there are quite a few of 'your like' who come onto OUR forum and spout far worse things to incite trouble. I am merely responding to a post that I read, and I wanted to air my views. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OC 1645 Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I accept the Trashcan thing, however there are quite a few of 'your like' who come onto OUR forum and spout far worse things to incite trouble. I am merely responding to a post that I read, and I wanted to air my views.Cuckoo, Cuckoo, Cuckoo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulie Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I accept the Trashcan thing, however there are quite a few of 'your like' who come onto OUR forum and spout far worse things to incite trouble. I am merely responding to a post that I read, and I wanted to air my views.fair play mate ,,,,,,, but I'm still pissed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulie Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 fair play mate ,,,,,,, but I'm still pissed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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