Ahhh I see what it is you said that upset people, here is the flaw in your thinking. I mentioned a lad I played rugby with who came out, it wasn't until we met his partner that some of us got a bit more educated, his partner was a small, slight lad who was very effeminate, he was overtly gay in the way Alan Carr is gay mannerisms kind of way, so that's the kind of guy he found attractive, not a strapping young lad in the rugby showers, just because he likes boys doesn't mean he likes them all in a completely uncontrolled way. Conversely continental saunas are a little disconcerting for about 5 minutes.