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On 21/12/2021 at 23:10, Hxj said:

Hi All

I am outwardly a successful professional, I earn very good money, nice house, nice cars, nice holidays (until March 2020), my partner and I have a good life, well we did until she died unexpectedly aged 58 in September a few days after a minor operation.  No one's fault, underlying health issues caught up with her.

Thank you all who take notice of me.

It has really helped.

Give your loved ones a hug this Christmas.

 

Haven’t read this thread for a few weeks.  Thoughts with you HXJ.

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On 21/12/2021 at 23:10, Hxj said:

Hi All

I am outwardly a successful professional, I earn very good money, nice house, nice cars, nice holidays (until March 2020), my partner and I have a good life, well we did until she died unexpectedly aged 58 in September a few days after a minor operation.  No one's fault, underlying health issues caught up with her.

Thank you all who take notice of me.

It has really helped.

Give your loved ones a hug this Christmas.

 

Hi, a good win today. Always makes the world seem a better place. I am a clinical hypnotherapist and offer a free session to help others in the group. Hypnotherapy can really help with grief and many other issues. Let me know if you would like to chat and get some support. Kind regards  Chris. www.timetothinkhypnotherapy.com 

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Oh boy,

No idea where to start with this one. 

Last 2 years have been ridiculous 

The last 12 months beyond insane. 

Attempted to be Sexually assaulted by my then Landlord

Stalked by a previous stalker, who reappeared for no reason, got warned and disappeared again. 

Two moves because of the above. 

In the latest gripping installment of wtf is life. 

I'm off to give a statement to the police on Wednesday after my ex has effectively skipped town owing me 1500 quid and a long and sustained period of physical and domestic violence. 

That's on top of both parents having had Covid 19 over Xmas and dealing with a long term shoulder injury. 

That doesn't even cover half of it... 

Happy New Year 

 

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36 minutes ago, Tafkarmlf said:

Oh boy,

No idea where to start with this one. 

Last 2 years have been ridiculous 

The last 12 months beyond insane. 

Attempted to be Sexually assaulted by my then Landlord

Stalked by a previous stalker, who reappeared for no reason, got warned and disappeared again. 

Two moves because of the above. 

In the latest gripping installment of wtf is life. 

I'm off to give a statement to the police on Wednesday after my ex has effectively skipped town owing me 1500 quid and a long and sustained period of physical and domestic violence. 

That's on top of both parents having had Covid 19 over Xmas and dealing with a long term shoulder injury. 

That doesn't even cover half of it... 

Happy New Year 

 

Don't keep it to yourself. Talk to people about it if you can...there's people out there who can help. Those who will listen. Sharing a problem can help. Plus a few of us on here who are happy to communicate bearing in mind confidentiality issues of course. And try to look ahead as positively as you can. Many of us have had issues in the past we've got over or maybe are still dealing with but you're not on your own remember that. Take care.👍

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On 21/12/2021 at 23:10, Hxj said:

Hi All

I am outwardly a successful professional, I earn very good money, nice house, nice cars, nice holidays (until March 2020), my partner and I have a good life, well we did until she died unexpectedly aged 58 in September a few days after a minor operation.  No one's fault, underlying health issues caught up with her.

Thank you all who take notice of me.

It has really helped.

Give your loved ones a hug this Christmas.

 

So sorry for your loss. I like so many others enjoy your posts, especially concerning FFP. I often think HXJ will be along in a minute to make sense of it all. Keep your head up fellow Red, you are amongst friends here.

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On 21/12/2021 at 23:10, Hxj said:

Hi All

I am outwardly a successful professional, I earn very good money, nice house, nice cars, nice holidays (until March 2020), my partner and I have a good life, well we did until she died unexpectedly aged 58 in September a few days after a minor operation.  No one's fault, underlying health issues caught up with her.

Thank you all who take notice of me.

It has really helped.

Give your loved ones a hug this Christmas.

 

Hey mate. 

I haven’t been on this thread for a while and I’m so desperately sorry to read your story. 

I lost my mum in March. Just suddenly taken ill with heart complications and died a couple of weeks later. I’d never had to deal with loss before so it’s been pretty difficult, so I can only imagine how you’re feeling. 

Just know that we’re here should you need us. By and large we’re a pleasant lot on here, and irrespective of whether you’re the biggest LJ fan in the world, you’re always welcome to drop me a PM. 

Thoughts are with you mate. 

Fordy

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I have been going to a regular counsellor for a while now took me a long time to accept i needed help after a realationship split and a few other things but without doubt it's the best decision i have ever made. I'm not there yet but know i am making progress. Don't keep it to yourself get the help.

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On 02/01/2022 at 17:24, Tafkarmlf said:

Oh boy,

No idea where to start with this one. 

Last 2 years have been ridiculous 

The last 12 months beyond insane. 

Attempted to be Sexually assaulted by my then Landlord

Stalked by a previous stalker, who reappeared for no reason, got warned and disappeared again. 

Two moves because of the above. 

In the latest gripping installment of wtf is life. 

I'm off to give a statement to the police on Wednesday after my ex has effectively skipped town owing me 1500 quid and a long and sustained period of physical and domestic violence. 

That's on top of both parents having had Covid 19 over Xmas and dealing with a long term shoulder injury. 

That doesn't even cover half of it... 

Happy New Year 

 

Hi, sorry to hear what you've been through. I'm a clinical hypnotherapist and offer people in this group free sessions to help them out. If you would like to message me, I would be happy to help. Many people have no clue about hypnotherapy and how it works. It has helped me massively over the last few years, dealing with the loss of my daughter Aoife and son Lucas in 2014 and coming to terms with partial deafness. That's why I trained, so I can help others. You can find out more at www.timetothinkhypnotherapy.com . All the best, Chris.

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1 hour ago, Pippintogg said:

Hi, sorry to hear what you've been through. I'm a clinical hypnotherapist and offer people in this group free sessions to help them out. If you would like to message me, I would be happy to help. Many people have no clue about hypnotherapy and how it works. It has helped me massively over the last few years, dealing with the loss of my daughter Aoife and son Lucas in 2014 and coming to terms with partial deafness. That's why I trained, so I can help others. You can find out more at www.timetothinkhypnotherapy.com . All the best, Chris.

I had hypnotherapy for anxiety-related blushing - silly little thing to most people, but it crippled me socially. Ever since, I've been so much more confident. Would recommend to anyone. 

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On 15/08/2021 at 07:14, Tre Bong said:

I'm done...really done...sorry guys and gals but i don't want to live in this ****** up world any more. I have set a date on the 23rd (my 43rd birthday), i have the BBQ  and the vodka ready. 

****

YOU 

ALL

Anyone heard anything from Tre Bong?

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Does anyone know Tre Bong outside otib? Social media, family? Not looking to dox but just to make sure all is well. 

From my own experience, I know how easy it is to want to give up or even have no control over what goes through your own mind. 

Do hope they are well and everyone else on here too 

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On 05/01/2022 at 16:30, ZiderEyed said:

I had hypnotherapy for anxiety-related blushing - silly little thing to most people, but it crippled me socially. Ever since, I've been so much more confident. Would recommend to anyone. 

Great to hear. It can be life changing. Many people still don't understand how it works and why it can help. I'm trying to change that. 

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18 hours ago, The Batman said:

I was in 2 minds as to whether to post this considering the nature of some of the stories on here but I've just finished after life series 2, and the near end scene of the last episode with the pills and the dog barking at him. That one really hit home. 

Just binge watched series 3, like you say it is so relatable. Had me in tears of laughter and sadness, such an amazing series 

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