TBF I don't believe any genuine City fans on here gloats when we lose (as opposed to a Fewer or other masquerading as a Red).
It's just that some City fans feel the pain and disappointment more strongly than others, and have a more pessimistic view of where we are now and the promise of a brighter future.
We are all on the same side. I'd be happier if fellow Reds avoided unnecessary, personal and prolonged spats with one another, but ain't much anyone here can do about keyboard aggro. It's part and parcel of most fans' forums.